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I dedicate this book to all of you who want to make an impact on the next generation. By picking up this book, you’ve already affirmed that you want to continue to influence your children, your grandchildren, and the people around you. Your offspring will remember you long after you’re no longer here on earth in your present form. They will think back and ask, “What would Grandpa do in this situation?”

Attitude is so important in staying young in thoughts and actions as we get older. I’ve been blessed with good health. I’ve learned to laugh often. And I’ve remained moderate in my behavior. At an early age I established my faith in God, and I’ve used His principles and the teachings of His Son, Jesus, as my lighthouse. I hope the thoughts in this book will help you draw closer to God, your family, your friends, and the next generation.

I encourage you to continue to stay informed regarding your family members’ lives. You have a great classroom to teach those who follow after you.

By wisdom a house is built,
And by understanding it is established;
And by knowledge the rooms are filled
With all precious and pleasant riches.

The writer of a book gets much of the credit for creating the content, but it takes the competent staff of the publisher to make a total package of the actual end product—the book.

I would like to give credit to all of those at Harvest House Publishers who made this book possible.

There is one person in particular who deserves special recognition—Hope Lyda, my editor. Without her creativity in arranging the text and forming cohesive chapters, it wouldn’t have come together as it has. Hope, thank you for your belief in and dedication to this project. I appreciate your many hours dedicated to this book. My hat is off to you for your insightful contributions.

Ace the Test of Time!

Today I face two big events in my life. I’m mentally preparing to take my driver’s license renewal test for the state of California, and I’m emotionally preparing to celebrate my eightieth birthday this weekend. In both cases, I’m ready. I’m even glad to welcome the achievements of the small and big milestones they represent. To prepare for a driver’s test, we know what to do: study the manual and learn the laws. But how can we prepare for our later years? Is there any grade, such as “pass” or “no pass,” when it comes to the test of time?

Yes, there is! How can we make sure we’ll pass? We can ace the test of time by continuing to be young at heart. Yes, there will be a time when we quit having birthdays. At that point, God will hopefully say to each of us, “Well done, good and faithful servant!” That will be the ultimate thumbs up! We get an A+, so we get to go to the head of the class.

I don’t know about you, but I look forward to the day the Lord reviews my life and my heart and sees that I’ve worked hard to be faithful, loyal, and compassionate. Oh what a day that will be! But until that day comes, I will continue to prepare by being an old guy who lives young by staying active; loving my family; caring deeply and sharing openly with the people I encounter, especially when it comes to younger folks; and looking forward to the new adventures God has in store. I hope that’s what you want to do too!

Time Is on Our Side

Time moves along quickly and takes us with it, whether we want that or not. Sometimes we turn around and barely recall all that has happened in our wake. But ready or not here we are. We have arrived at this stage in life that gives us the high calling of being “seniors.” We’ve been fortunate to endure the ups and downs of life to arrive at this sacred throne of honor.

Many people think time is the enemy, but I say time is on our side when we live each moment with gratitude and a willingness to keep growing into the men of God we were born to be. Time is on our side when we look at the clock and, instead of mourning its forward motion, acknowledge the gift of another wonderful hour to spend with a loved one or gazing in awe at the sunset.

I want to encourage you and me to celebrate the honor of being in this place in our lives. No matter what our ages, I pray we’ll glean some great lessons along this journey we’re embarking on. Through inspirational stories, bits of wisdom, and some godly principles, we’ll discover how we can best help those who are younger than we are.

Let’s jump right in and enjoy this season. It can be the most exciting and blessed of all our seasons so far. I love the sentiment in this quote: “Today is the oldest you’ve been, yet the youngest you’ll ever be, so enjoy it while it lasts” (author unknown).

Earning an A+

When we view our lives as gifts from God and the way we live our lives as gifts to those who come after us (and to God), we will ace the test of time. Even though our bodies tell us—even shout at us—“We’re getting old!” we can still let those around us know we’re young in heart, thought, and spirit. We can model a vibrant, open to learning, loving attitude for every person we encounter.

Will Rogers, the great American humorist, said, “Eventually you will reach a point in life when you stop lying about your age and start bragging about it.” He also said, “When you are dissatisfied and would like to go back to your youth, just think about Algebra.” What good reminders! Our test is not to relive and redo our younger years, complete with its trials and triumphs. No, our goal is to walk with integrity and joy through right now. God said through Moses,

I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live (Deuteronomy 30:19 NIV).

For those of us still in the first half of life, may the thoughts in this book give us encouragement to nurture and model godly character. For those of us living in the second half of life, may we continue to press on in shining splendor to please God. While we are all seeking to shine brightly as examples of living young, let us also take time to notice the bright aspects of living long—and there are many! Here are some pluses to whet a positive mindset:

• We forget names, but it’s okay because other people forget they even know us.

I hope to encourage you as we explore a wide variety of topics and special sections that include “God’s ‘Living Young’ Wisdom” and “Your Guide to Living Young.” While I’m going to draw on specifics from my life for examples, my prayer is you’ll recognize much of your own journey in these pages.

At the end of each chapter, I’ve provided a short summary and some questions to help you think about this season of life with a fresh perspective. You can use the questions as reflections for your personal quiet time; as talking points for conversations with your wife, family, and friends; or as fodder for writing your own guide for living young. At the close of each chapter is a “PaPa Bob’s Prayer” to gently ease you into spending time with the Lord. (Yep, my grandchildren call me PaPa Bob. I love it!)

God gives His people a desire to fellowship with Him and grow in Him. In unity, you and I can draw strength from each other and find even greater purposes for this important season in our lives. If you’re like me, you want the love of God to flow through you and then move into the lives of those you love and care for. This is what we were made for! I’m so thankful God doesn’t expect us to take achievement tests. I am pleased and happy that He allows us to pass on to our families, friends, and acquaintances the character, wisdom, and other riches we’ve discovered and acquired through the years.

Laugh Lines Are Free, but Wisdom Is Earned

Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise, and apply your mind to my knowledge.

It can be quite a jolt to some of us the first time we go to our mailboxes and find envelopes addressed to us from Medicare and senior citizen organizations mixed in with the bills, notices, and various catalogs featuring active lifestyles. Even when we consider ourselves put-together individuals who recognize the value of the human life cycle, the realization that we are now eligible to be card-carrying members of the “older generation” can be a blow to our egos and our once-secure sense of identity.

Like me, I’m sure you’ve known people who start acting old before their time. They go from vibrant and active life participants to sideline observers all because they got a piece of mail that reminded them they weren’t 40 anymore. Maybe we find ourselves doing this very thing! My friend, there is much joy in this time of life. We need to look at those laugh lines adorning our faces with appreciation! They are gifts from time spent with others and with God in His great creation. We don’t want to allow ourselves to become one of the “sideliner old-timers.” There’s no need. As we explore perspectives, attitudes, purposes, and decisions through these chapters, we’ll discover hope and joy no matter what discount cards we carry. (In fact, those cards should be celebrated. Use them and be glad for the extra consideration. Wise men know not to challenge a good deal when it comes their way.)

Wisdom Increases with Time and Experience

One of the advantages of growing older is that people perceive us as being wise. My grandson Chad refers to me, his “PaPa Bob,” as being the wisest man he knows. What a compliment! My wisdom doesn’t come from head knowledge as much as it comes from heart knowledge. By heart knowledge, I mean truths and insights from God’s Word and from a life spent learning, hoping, praying, laughing, teaching, sharing, and gathering wisdom.

The older I become, the more I’m certain that living from the heart has huge value. Our faces and bodies change. Our family and financial situations change. But when we choose to live from our hearts and our hearts are centered in God, we are able to carry on and even celebrate no matter what unfolds around us.

Be willing to make mistakes.

If we don’t learn from our mistakes, we will likely repeat them. Don’t be afraid to take bold steps even though you may encounter problems. You want to experience life’s fullness and be encouraged about what events might come tomorrow.

Something I still have in common with my younger self is that I want to live a life that is meaningful to God, my family, my friends, and me. I want my decisions to be based on my belief in God and His Son, Jesus Christ. I don’t want my decisions to be based on convenience, people pressure, or selfishness. The intention to live with honor has been with me for a long, long time, but the how of this equation has come to me gradually through the wisdom I’ve gleaned and gathered. (I was and still am a teacher, so I can’t help myself when it comes to asking “how” questions.) Thankfully, God continues to shape me by working with my blunders, my personality traits, my quirks, and the trials I face that help me grow. I love that He is with me during every sweet moment of success and joy too.

One of the benefits of standing here, in this place beyond midlife, is being able to look back and see how God has been faithful. We can rest in the security of His presence and patience because we’ve experienced Him firsthand over and over. We didn’t have as much time and history with God when we were younger. When I was in my thirties and raising a young family with my dear wife, Emilie, I was working in the California school system and making decisions that benefited students and teachers alike. I had great faith, but I didn’t have the long journey with God to look back on, to draw strength from, and to rejoice in. In many ways, I was just beginning to understand what it means to “live in faith” and to experience the joy and peace Jesus gives freely to all who choose to believe in Him.

When We Don’t Punch a Time Clock

Many people who are of retirement age are still working because of preference, passion, or finances. Whether we’re fully retired or are still spending time in the land of paychecks, this time of life presents new ways to view work and vocation. Again, wisdom gained from experience and time sheds light on every part of our lives, including the efforts of our hearts and hands.

In the very beginning, God placed Adam in a beautiful garden and told him to work and take care of all the plants. In chapter one of Genesis, we read how “God created mankind in his own image…male and female” (verse 27). After their creation, He blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground” (verse 28).

“The LORD God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it” (2:15). Eden was not a retail shop, a factory, or a specific place of employment, but work was part of the responsibility God bestowed on mankind in that place of origin. The same is true for our lives in the garden of our latter years. Even if we no longer punch a time clock, we still work with God to create meaning and purpose in our lives. We are blessed with the responsibility of living with intention and faith. And we are to be good stewards in everything we do.

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

Gandhi

Living and learning are what make life so meaningful. Keep expanding your mind, and you will find more pleasure in living.

Who Are We Pleasing?

Early artisans, painters, and craftsmen sought to do work that would be pleasing to God. Their work had an excellence about it because it was created to please Him. Their efforts were a reflection of how they saw God in their lives. The culture today leans the opposite way. Work is often done with attitudes of frustration, disappointment, and halfheartedness. There is no gratitude or praise to be seen in the efforts or the results.

So who are we trying to please? Whether we’re retired during this season or are still actively working in business, we’re faced with this question and the call to live out the answer. When we get up in the morning and step into the day, are we aiming to please God or man? God or self? Self or others? Does God smile when He sees our work? Our work should bring Him pleasure!

Whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him…Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving (Colossians 3:17,23-24).

I’ve had to wipe the sweat off my brow with a handkerchief and ask myself as I lean over a shovel, “Why is work so hard?” Many of us find ourselves in seasons of life when we also ask, “Why is the labor of living so hard?” Many challenges and disappointments drive us into God’s waiting arms. When life is hard, it doesn’t mean we aren’t on the path of faith or walking with God. Our labor might be exactly what draws us back to secure God’s strength. Paul writes to the church at Ephesus, “We are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do” (Ephesians 2:10). When we believe God has prepared in advance work for us to do during this season of life, we will awaken with a stronger sense of purpose. This isn’t a season of fading away—it’s a time of great harvest!

GOD’S “LIVING YOUNG” WISDOM

I think some of the benefits of growing older are having opportunities and more time available to realize what the Word taught us in our youth and to put into motion the lessons Jesus taught His followers, including us. As I go back and meditate on His words recorded in Luke 10:25-37, I see the story of “The Good Samaritan” as a compelling parable.

The Story

A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. “Look after him,” he said, “and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have” (Luke 10:30-35).

The priest was a legalist, a holy man of the Jewish temple in Jerusalem. He was a keeper of the hundreds of laws that are found in the Torah. He was a scholar of Jewish law. If he had chosen to help the injured man and the man died, the priest would become unclean according to Jewish law. He would have to go through a lengthy process to become ceremonially clean to enter the temple. When he didn’t stop, it probably wasn’t because he was a bad man. No, according to Jewish law, as a priest he was not to touch a man who might be on the verge of dying or dead unless it was an immediate family member (Leviticus 21:4; Numbers 19:11).

The Levites were the priestly line who served in the temple. So the Levite man who passed the injured or dead man was also constrained by Jewish law. He too would want to avoid becoming contaminated. Perhaps that’s why he didn’t cross the road to help.

The injured man on the side of the road was probably a Jewish traveler going from Jerusalem down to Jericho—a road known for bad things happening to travelers.

The Samaritans were people of mixed heritage, including some who were of Jewish and Gentile heritage. Jews did not associate with Samaritans, who were detested, considered social outcasts, and worshipped pagan gods (John 4:9,22). But on this day, a Samaritan man not only stopped to give aid to the injured traveler, but he put the man on his donkey, took him to an inn, paid the innkeeper two denarii (the equivalent of wages for two days of labor), and said he would return to pay any other expenses incurred.

Through this story, commonly called “The Good Samaritan,” Jesus was answering questions posed by an expert in Jewish law. “What must I do to inherit eternal life?” the man had asked. After being told to “love your neighbor as yourself,” the lawyer asked, “Who is my neighbor?” And Jesus replied with the Good Samaritan parable.

This story inspires us and teaches us to love people who are different from us. It could be a difference in nationality, color, religion, class status, and so forth. The bottom line is we are to love. We show the world we are Christians by our love.

After finishing His parable, Jesus asks the Torah scholar which of the three men was the “neighbor” of the injured man. The scholar replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Then Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise” (verse 37).

And this is our challenge too as we enter our senior years. We are to love those who are different from us and be servants to God and the people around us.

Sharing the Harvest

Emilie and I have used every opportunity to teach our grandchildren about God and creation. When they were little, they loved to use their hands to till the soil, scatter seeds in little trenches, cover the seeds with fertile soil, and help with the first watering. Who doesn’t love the freedom to get dirty? It was always exciting to share the first harvest together too. Since there was always more than we needed, they got to take some home for their families. They discovered that sharing the fruits of their labor, literally and figuratively, was a great treasure. They understood, even when they were little, that they were partnering with God in the labor and in the giving and receiving.

Proverbs 13:22 says, “A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children.” As Emilie and I entered our golden years (that aren’t always golden), we wanted to further develop our mindset of being servants. After all, Jesus said, “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Matthew 20:28).

It takes unselfish love to give to others what we feel is important in life. Many grandparents have said to me, “I’ve raised my children. Now let them

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