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Table of Contents
 
Title Page
Copyright Page
Acknowledgements
Introduction
 
PART 1 - EMOTIONAL AWARENESS
 
CHAPTER ONE - Cycling with Energy
 
FIRST STEP: DISCOVER YOUR CYCLES
SECOND STEP: CREATE AN ENERGY LIST
THIRD STEP: MATCH YOUR TASKS
READJUSTING YOUR PEAK PERIODS
 
CHAPTER TWO - Vision Guides Destiny
 
DON’T WAIT FOR YOUR MORTALITY SANDWICH
ALIGNING YOUR CAREER WITH YOUR VISION
 
CHAPTER THREE - Race into the Strength Zone
 
MAKE THE INVISIBLE VISIBLE
BE HAPPIER
STRENGTH ATTRACTION
COMBINE YOUR STRENGTHS
 
CHAPTER FOUR - Set Your Flame
 
KNOW YOUR FLAME SETTING
GET COOKING WITH YOUR BLUE BIKE
BE CAREFUL WITH ANGER
GO SLOW TO TURN DOWN THE FLAME
TRY EASY
 
CHAPTER FIVE - Get a Charge from Risk
 
RISK AWARENESS
GET RISKY WITH A PLAN
 
CHAPTER SIX - Find Your Flow
 
KNOW THYSELF
 
CHAPTER SEVEN - Stick with the Basics
 
MAKE A BASIC LIST
KEEP IT SIMPLE
 
CHAPTER EIGHT - Through the Uprights
 
PLAYING YOUR CARDS
 
CHAPTER NINE - Start with a Beginner’s Mind
 
BEING AWARE OF YOUR BIASES
HAVE THE HIGHEST EXPECTATIONS FOR EVERYONE
 
PART 2 - EMOTIONAL PREPAREDNESS
CHAPTER TEN - Plan for the Best, but Prepare for the Worst
 
DEVELOP AN ADVERSITY PLAN
PREPARATION IMPLIES PERSPIRATION
HAVE A BACKUP PLAN
PREPARE FOR THE UNEXPECTED
 
CHAPTER ELEVEN - Wear the Red Shirt
 
FAKE IT ’TIL YOU MAKE IT
SMILE, SMILE, SMILE
STRUT YOUR STUFF
PLAY THE ROLE
 
CHAPTER TWELVE - Choose Your Attitude
 
HAVE AN EARLY MORNING HAPPY HOUR
 
CHAPTER THIRTEEN - Fill Your Mind with Golden Nuggets
 
DEVELOP A VICTORY LOG
COLLECT VICTORY MEMENTOS
 
CHAPTER FOURTEEN - Enlighten Your Game
 
TUNE UP THE T
URGE ON THE U
FOSTER THE F
 
CHAPTER FIFTEEN - Be Comfortable in the Uncomfortable
 
HAVE YOUR OWN REALITY SHOW
PRACTICE WITH CONSEQUENCES
 
CHAPTER SIXTEEN - Pump Up with Positive Self-Talk
 
DEVELOP A BEST FRIEND’S JOURNAL
MAKE EVERY CLIENT YOUR FAVORITE
BE LIKE BRUCE LEE
SNAP OUT OF IT
 
CHAPTER SEVENTEEN - Get a Lifeline
 
GET A LIFELINE
GIVE YOURSELF A NICKNAME
 
CHAPTER EIGHTEEN - Think Big
 
THINK BIG
 
CHAPTER NINETEEN - Anticipate Your Excellence
 
DEVELOP A CLIENT LOG
 
PART 3 - EMOTIONAL BRAVADO
CHAPTER TWENTY - Squash the Grapes
 
SQUASH THE GRAPES
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-ONE - Turn Pressure into Pleasure
 
SEE PRESSURE AS AN HONOR
CREATE A STORY
SHARE THE EXPERIENCE
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-TWO - Face Your Fears
 
BE HONEST
JUST DO IT
LET FEAR INSPIRE YOU
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-THREE - Sing the Carly Principle
 
RUN YOUR OWN RACE
FOCUS ON THE NEEDS OF OTHERS
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-FOUR - Get Rational
 
RATIONALIZE THE PROBLEM
FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING
IRRATIONAL REJECTION
ACTING AS IF IT WERE LIFE OR DEATH
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-FIVE - Make Good from Bad
 
FAIL FORWARD
LEARN FROM OTHER PEOPLE’S MISTAKES
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-SIX - Risk the Pain of Losing
 
THE ACT OF QUITTING
SET REALISTIC GOALS
LAY IT ON THE LINE
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-SEVEN - Fly in the No-Complaint Zone
 
WEAR AN EMOTIONAL SUIT OF ARMOR
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-EIGHT - Develop Positive Rituals
 
HAVE START-OF-THE-DAY RITUALS
DO NOT CHANGE RITUALS BECAUSE OF CIRCUMSTANCES
PREVENT JET LAG
AVOID NEGATIVE RITUALS
 
CHAPTER TWENTY-NINE - Kick the Anxiety Habit
 
RECONDITION YOUR BODY WITH SYSTEMATIC DESENSITIZATION
COOL OFF THE PRESSURE
 
PART 4 - EMOTIONAL CONNECTEDNESS
CHAPTER THIRTY - Zen and the Art of Business
 
DO THE DISHES
DEVELOP A TRIGGER SENTENCE
SAVOR THE MOMENT
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-ONE - Quiet the Mind
 
TAKE A SHOWER
TRUST YOUR GUT
GO UPSIDE DOWN
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-TWO - Develop a Post-Event Routine
 
RELEASE
REIMAGE
RESET
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-THREE - Open the Gates of Your Concentration Reservoir
 
DIAL IT IN
REACCUMULATION OF MENTAL ENERGY
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-FOUR - Flow with Your Concentration Style
 
ARE YOU A STEVE MCNAIR?
ARE YOU A PEYTON MANNING?
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-FIVE - Do the Twain
 
THINK THE OPPOSITE
DEVELOP CREATIVE ROUTINES
TRY SOME DIALOGUE
EXERCISE YOUR CREATIVITY
 
PART 5 - EMOTIONAL DRIVE
CHAPTER THIRTY-SIX - Passion Play—The Phelpsian Way
 
BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE
LOVE THE ONE YOU’RE WITH
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-SEVEN - Discover the Power of Pride
 
THE HARD MAKES YOU FEEL GREAT
DISCOVER COMPANY PRIDE
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-EIGHT - The Secret Is in the Dirt
 
DOUBLE IT
 
CHAPTER THIRTY-NINE - Find Your Joy Spot
 
FINDING THE JOY AGAIN
ADD MORE LAUGHTER
 
CHAPTER FORTY - Get a Mentor
 
DON’T FEEL GUILTY
CHANGE MENTORS
MENTORING AS FRIENDSHIP BUILDING
MENTORS CAN APPEAR EVERYWHERE
 
CHAPTER FORTY-ONE - Drive to the Goal
 
SHORT-TERM GOALS
STRATEGIES
ASSESSMENT
REEVALUATION
RE-START THE PROCESS
 
CHAPTER FORTY-TWO - Commit to Finishing the Race
 
COMMIT TO THE FINISH
 
CHAPTER FORTY-THREE - Rocket Past a Plateau
 
CHANGE SOMETHING
BE SMARTER WITH A LITTLE STRESS
 
CHAPTER FORTY-FOUR - Catapult with Charity
 
BE GENEROUS FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH
GIVING INCREASES YOUR LIFE SPAN
 
CHAPTER FORTY-FIVE - Leap Above Boredom
 
LEAP ABOVE YOUR BOREDOM
 
PART 6 - EMOTIONAL BALANCE
CHAPTER FORTY-SIX - Discover Your Inner Tiger (Woods)
 
MAKE A TIGER LIST
LEAVING A LEGACY
 
CHAPTER FORTY-SEVEN - Let It Be
 
BE A SALES STATISTICIAN
 
CHAPTER FORTY-EIGHT - Serenity Now
 
FIND YOUR SERENITY
 
CHAPTER FORTY-NINE - The Best Are Never Satisfied
 
TAKE TIME TO READ
DEVELOP NEW TOOLS TO YOUR TRADE
ALWAYS ASK WHY
PEACE OF MIND
 
CHAPTER FIFTY - Let Integrity Flow
 
LET INTEGRITY BE YOUR ULTIMATE FRIEND
INTEGRITY MUST FLOW ACROSS ALL SITUATIONS
BE AWARE: HAVING INTEGRITY MAY COST YOU
 
CHAPTER FIFTY-ONE - Temper Competitiveness with Mastery
 
COMBINE COMPETITIVE AND MASTERY OBJECTIVES
 
CHAPTER FIFTY-TWO - Diversify Your Life’s Portfolio
 
BALANCE BREEDS RESILIENCY
BALANCE PROMOTES HAPPINESS
BALANCE PREVENTS BURNOUT
 
PART 7 - MASTERING FULL THROTTLE
CHAPTER FIFTY-THREE - Hit It Out of the Park!
 
ESAT (EMOTIONAL STRENGTH ASSESSMENT TOOL)
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
There are many people who contributed to the making of this book. I first want to thank Shannon Vargo, Editor at Wiley, for her vision of this book and continual support of my work. Her kind words will always be appreciated. I also want to thank the team at Wiley: Deborah Schindlar, Senior Production Editor, and Beth Zipko, Editorial Assistant, for helping turn the book into a reality. I also want to thank all the people I have worked with who have inspired me to share their stories and helpful hints with a bigger audience. I also want to thank my friends—Barbara Barna, Charlie Nickell, David Meador, Rudy Kalis, Clarence Quillen, Craig Patrick, Teresa Shiping, Mark Moore, Stan Morrison, Mark Harmon, and Dewey Bushaw—who shared with me some great stories that I’ve used in this book.
I also want to thank Bea Steinberg for all her thoughtful advice and words of encouragement, which helped make this a better book. Lastly, I want to thank Tommie Kay for her love and support.

INTRODUCTION
Master Your Emotions—Master Your World
Mastering our emotions is the X-factor to success. I discovered this performance principle to my own demise on the golf course more than 20 years ago.
The place was the Calabasas Country Club, site of the U.S. amateur qualifier. At this site, they were going to take only one person to go to Pebble Beach, my favorite place on the planet. I was only a high school senior at the time, and I knew I was out of my league, about to compete against some of the best college players in Southern California. But I thought, what the heck, it was the U.S. Amateur at Pebble Beach. I had to go for it.
Let us fast forward this story to the eighteenth tee. Amazingly, unbelievably, I was in the lead. My playing partner was Mighty John, six feet, three inches, and the current Number One player at UCLA and he was two strokes behind me, and the rest of the field was three strokes behind him.
The eighteenth hole was a 510-yard, par 5, slight dog-leg right. But I was not thinking about par; I was in the Zone. For the previous holes, when I looked down the fairways, all I could see was open space. I had no thoughts of where the trouble was on the hole—there were no water hazards or out-of-bounds, just the safety of the fairway. When I looked at the greens, all I could see was the flag-stick. When I got to the green, the hole looked huge, like a 10-foot round circle. Everything was going in—10-footers, 20-footers—everything. I was calm and completely confident in my game. I felt invincible.
As I was about to hit my last tee shot of the day, I did my wiggles and waggles, and then suddenly heard, “Wait, wait . . . someone is driving up the fairway.” Someone was indeed driving up the fairway—it was my little brother Jake. And he was going as fast as he could. He pulled up to the tee box and yelled, slightly out of breath, “Gregg, Gregg, if you par this hole, we are going to Pebble Beach.”
Now my thoughts shifted in reverse—I thought par, Pebble Beach, par, all I needed was a par. The feeling was as if a two-by-four piece of wood had slammed across my head. My hands instantly became all sweaty; my heart started to jump out of my chest; my ears began to tingle and my eyesight began to go in and out of focus. I thought I still need to hit this tee ball, so I got up to my ball, did my wiggles and waggles again, and then topped my tee shot 70 yards into the weeds up ahead.
After 3 minutes and 59 seconds, we found my ball and I took a mighty swipe with my 7-iron. Now, I was 30 yards behind Mighty John, who had just hit a 300-yard drive. I got up to my ball and smashed a 3-wood, just on the fringe short of the green. Mighty John got up to his ball, and coolly and calmly hit his 3-iron to 40 feet from the pin.
As we walked up the green, there were about 100 people waiting for us. They all knew one of us was going to make it to Pebble Beach. I could feel their eyes piercing my skin. My mind now began to race faster and faster. All I could think was, “Don’t leave this putt short; don’t leave it right; get it to the hole, you idiot.” Bam—I hit my putt 10 feet by the hole. Then Mighty John got up to his ball and again coolly and calmly rolled it in for an eagle. We were tied at that moment.
I then got over to my 10-footer and thought, “All you have to do is make this for par and we are in the playoff. Don’t leave it short, don’t leave it right.” I left my ball five inches short of the cup.
Mighty John went to Pebble Beach that summer and I got to sit at home with my little brother Jake.
That was the bad news.
The good news is that day I vowed to understand why some people choke under pressure like I did, and why some people excel under pressure like Mighty John. I have written this book to share with you my years of knowledge—what I have learned as a sport psychology consultant to many professional athletes, as a performance coach to business-people, as well as my own research.
All my experiences have led to one undeniable truth: When you master your emotions, you master your world. Emotional control is the essential ingredient to our health, happiness, and productivity. Yes, mental toughness is vital and our thinking can help to guide our emotions, but ultimately, it is our emotions that control our performance. Emotions drive the engine down the path to failure or success. When you are consumed by the fear of losing your job, mad at your boss, or stuck in a joyless job, then your potential is drained and your performance will suffer. On the other hand, when you feel jazzed to be at work, see the stress of the situation as an enjoyable challenge, and truly like your job, then your talents will be unleashed and you will soar. Regardless of venue, this principle is woven into the fabric of success. Whether you are a CEO, a world-class athlete, salesperson, or secretary—your emotions control your destiny.
The importance of emotional mastery leading to a prosperous life is not a new belief. The ancient Greeks used the term sophrosyne to describe the ability to value fortune and disaster in the same light. They believed qualities such as self-mastery and self-control would transcend time as essentials for a prosperous life. Today, we know that success lies not so much in ability but in emotional intelligence. Popularized by Daniel Goleman, emotional intelligence has been accepted as an essential ingredient to success and happiness in the new age.
Full Throttle takes emotional mastery one step further. Full Throttle introduces emotional mastery through the development of our emotional strengths. As with our physical strengths and fitness, we must maintain and build our emotional strengths. The greater we can develop our emotional strengths, the greater is our emotional control over our world, and ultimately, the greater the chance for happiness and prosperity.
To explain how these six emotional strengths interact, picture yourself on a journey to the top of a mountain. We are all on this climb toward excellence, whether it is to win a championship, be promoted to the corner office, or to have a happy and fulfilling life. The following six emotional strengths will help you achieve your goals.
1. Emotional Awareness: This is your road map. You must be aware of which emotions energize you and which drain you. When you understand when your energies peak, you can capitalize on those periods. You also need to know when it’s time to recharge and refuel.
2. Emotional Preparedness: Events rarely go as planned. You must be emotionally ready for any difficulties that may arise. To be successful, you need to plan for the best, but prepare for the worst. Bad events will not drain your energies when you’re ready for them.
3. Emotional Bravado: Fear creates negative energy, which can block your journey or, at least, slow you down. Winners channel the negative energy of fear into a positive action, an opportunity to grow.
4. Emotional Connectedness: We must be fully connected to the moment, or we may get lost on our journey. Successful individuals focus their energies in the here and now. Once we are fully engaged in the present, our life gets that much sweeter.
5. Emotional Drive: To reach the top in any field, knowledge is not enough and intention is not enough. To get results, we must be proactive and take action. But action requires boundless energy and a committed heart.
6. Emotional Balance: Success is a long journey. It will take much more than winning to sustain our hunger. We need balance as well as meaning and purpose to make this long trek to the top.
These six emotional strengths create the sections for the book. While these sources are interconnected, they are interdependent. You must master all six to fully ignite your energy and master your emotions. Readers can turn, however, to any section they believe is most needed at that time. The Emotional Strength Assessment Tool (ESAT) is provided in the last chapter of this book. The ESAT is a paper-and-pencil assessment that measures all six emotional strengths in about 10 minutes.
Sections are composed of a series of short and entertaining chapters. An ancient proverb states, “Tell me a fact and I’ll learn. Tell me the truth and I will believe. But tell me a story and it will live in my heart forever.” Each chapter begins with a success story of some athlete or business executive I have coached, or with a story about a high-achieving individual that I want to share with you. I believe if we understand how Tiger Woods, Bill Gates, or Rudy Giuliani have gained emotional mastery, then we will gain the competitive edge needed to thrive in our lives.
Each chapter concludes with usable activities and important tips that will allow you to capitalize in any setting. Because busy people want to make good use of their time, the activities are streamlined for the fast pace of today’s world. For example, the drill “Snap out of it!” shows you how to channel negative thoughts into a positive source of energy in a few brief moments. In all, there are 122 quick and effective drills to recharge, refuel, and refocus your life.
Full Throttle gives you a coherent and enduring system that, if practiced, moves you toward a better way to live. If you choose to thrive on the inside, this book is your guide.

PART 1
EMOTIONAL AWARENESS
First and foremost, champions know who they are and what makes them tick. They know what emotions drive their engine. They know when they peak in their energies and how to harness that power. Winners like Lance Armstrong develop plans to harness their strengths to be successful. Champions like Tony Gwynn understand what got them there, and at times, go back to the basics to get back to the top of their games. Emotional awareness can help you develop a road map that guides your life journey.
Do you know your energy cycles? Are you aware of your strengths and true talents? Do you know what gets you in the flow and what causes you to choke?
The following section shows you how to find your flow as well as helps you develop a vision based upon the principles of self-awareness. Once you have a plan based on your true self, the steps of the journey are easy.

CHAPTER ONE
Cycling with Energy
Place two fingers on the side of your neck and get your pulse. Did you feel the rhythm of your beating heart? This is the rhythm of life.
This rhythm is within us and all around us—the ebb and flow of tides, the migration of the birds, the moon orbiting the Earth, and the Earth orbiting the Sun. There is a heartbeat to the Universe.
Thomas Edison had the pulse of the inventing world at the turn of the twentieth century. He was renowned for his incredible output (1,093 patents) and work ethic. It is believed that he would work for days without sleep—but that is a myth.
The truth is that Edison knew his internal rhythms—he was aware of his working cycle and used this to his advantage. Edison was a notorious nap taker. He would crawl up on his desk and use his favorite chemistry books as pillows. He allowed himself time to re-throttle. Edison knew he needed time to rejuvenate his body and his mind for the incredible work that lay ahead.
Some people lack the intuitive sense of internal rhythms that Edison had. They just run hard and fast instead, believing that if they do not, the competition will pass them by. Tim Howard, a sales executive, had this problem. He would schedule as many appointments as he could in a day. While Tim was moderately successful, he felt his biggest problem was his inability to connect with many of his clients.
As he and I worked together on this problem, we discovered that Tim was scheduling important clients when he was naturally cycling down in his energy—Tim was trying to go full-throttle when he should have been re-throttling in his energy levels. As a result, he was faking his energy during important client meetings, which made his actions look faked and forced. His clients read those subtle clues as a form of distrust, decreasing his chances of a successful interaction.
To turn Tim’s business around, we created a plan that allowed him to become more aware of his energy cycles. The plan also helped Tim match his important activities to the appropriate times in his day. When this occurred, he exuded positive energy at the correct times, which helped him develop a greater connection to his clients.
Knowing when to go full-throttle and when to re-throttle will be a significant key to your longevity as well as success in the world of business. The following drills help to capitalize on your energy cycles using a three-step energy management plan.

FIRST STEP: DISCOVER YOUR CYCLES

Dr. Richard Carlson wrote many self-help books, including the best-selling Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff. He wrote only very early in the morning, when he was peaking in his creative energy. While he accomplished many tasks during the day as a psychologist, consultant, and speaker, Carlson learned that the crack of dawn was his best time to fulfill his destiny as a writer.
To maximize productivity, you must first pay attention to the rising and falling of your energy cycles. Does your energy soar in the morning? Does it take a skid after lunch? Do you have a second wind in the evening? Awareness of your energy is the first step to harnessing it.
To accomplish this task, develop a scale that rates your energy. Allow the number zero on the scale to signify a period when you have very little energy. Mark 100 on the scale to indicate when you are completely revved up with great energy. Mark your scale in 10-point increments, describing each incremental step with a simple sentence such as “moderate energy” or “good energy.”
Next, rate your energy levels in two-hour blocks for each day (See Table 1.1, Step 2). Do this for one week. For instance, you may find your energy peaks from 8:00 to 10:00 in the morning. You then take a bit of a slide in the mid-morning, and then peak after lunch only to discover another slide around 3 P.M. Or, you may find that you are revved up in the afternoon, but percolate with a bit of energy only in the morning hours.
While most individuals will have a few peaks and valleys throughout the day, everyone is unique. Knowing when your energy soars as well as when it droops is the first step in learning to harness it.

SECOND STEP: CREATE AN ENERGY LIST

Most successful individuals create a to-do list. They may create this list before they leave work, and these tasks relate to what will be accomplished the following day. Or, they may create their list as the day’s first task.
Try something new: create an energy to-do list. Quantify each activity on the list in terms of three different levels of energy: high, moderate, and low. (See Table 1.1) As an example, meeting an important client for the first time can require a vast amount of energy. Meeting with a disgruntled client and resolving a key issue can be very draining as well. On the other hand, making cold calls, or writing a proposal require moderate energy; simple analysis and warm calls can be low-energy tasks.
Table 1.1 Energy To-do List
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THIRD STEP: MATCH YOUR TASKS

The third step of the plan is to schedule your tasks for the appropriate time of day. Based upon the previous two steps, place the most demanding energy tasks in the times when you have the most energy. Position moderate energy tasks for when you begin to slide in your energy. Do low energy tasks when your energy levels have bottomed out.
Your peak energy periods are precious. Safeguard them for the demanding activities that will be most profitable to you. Save the tasks that require very little mental and emotional energy for the times when you begin to slide. You can still be highly effective if you accomplish simple tasks during your low-energy periods.
Knowing when to sprint and when to slow your pace will help you finish the day with a quantity of accomplishments.

READJUSTING YOUR PEAK PERIODS

An important question I receive at many seminars is whether you can readjust the timing of your peak periods. The answer is yes!
Antonio Ravette, a concert violinist, would get up early in the morning, around 6:30 A.M. But after the analysis we discussed earlier, we discovered that he peaked at 9 A.M. and again at 3 P.M. Antonio had recently been hired by the Nashville Symphony, which usually starts their performances at 7 P.M. at the Shimmerhorn Concert Hall. To remedy this issue, we had Antionio sleep until 9:30 A.M. That pushed his cycles to peak three hours later—to a time when he needed to be surging in his energy cycles.
If you need to readjust your cycles, perhaps sleeping a little later may do your energy some good.

CHAPTER TWO
Vision Guides Destiny
Driving to spring training in Florida, the famous baseball player and New York Yankees manager, Yogi Berra, and his wife were terribly late. They were driving all night and Yogi’s wife fell fast asleep. To make up for lost time, Yogi took a short cut that eventually turned into a dirt road with more dirt than road. His wife suddenly awoke, very startled, and said to Yogi, “Honey, I think we’re lost.” Yogi, always ready with a quick quip, replied, “Yeah but we’re making great time.”
Without vision, you may get somewhere, but most likely it will be the somewhere you don’t want. Vision guides your destiny. It did for Gary Player. As a young lad growing up in South Africa, Gary had the vision of his greatness. Gary would stand in front of a mirror and say over and over “You are going to be one of the greatest players of all time.” Gary Player’s vision shined very brightly, and guided him to become one of the greatest golfers of the twentieth century.
Vision can create our end point even if one does not currently exist. When Tommy Burnett entered the University of Virginia in 1993, he declared to his professor that his vision was to be a special effects expert on a Star Wars movie. Unfortunately for him, the last Star Wars movie had been made 10 years earlier.
Given that predicament, most people would choose another direction. Not Tommy. He had a vision of bringing to life his favorite science fiction characters on the silver screen and making them appear real. He read everything he could get his hands on regarding how to create special effects and how to program these effects. He became an expert on a new computer programming language called Python.
Fortunately, Industrial Light & Magic, the company owned by George Lucas and creator of the Star Wars movies, needed someone who knew Python. Tommy was their man and was hired to develop special effects for the new Star Wars movies in 1999, 2002, and 2003. Tommy’s vision created his destiny.
Our vision is our light. We all need this light. In a sense, it is a survival mechanism. Psychologists discovered that when mice were placed in a tub with no way out, they would stop swimming after 45 minutes and drown. However, if the mice had a light shining upon them, they would continue to swim for 36 hours. The mice were motivated through the darkness by a vision of light.
Vision guided Christopher Reeve throughout his darkest hours—his vision was the light at the end of his tragic tunnel. Christopher Reeve’s rise to fame was fierce, propelling him to the top of the Hollywood game in the 1970s. Then tragedy struck. During an equestrian competition, his horse threw him and he landed on his neck. His injury was so severe that he was paralyzed from the neck down. But Reeve had a vision that would guide him through the next 10 years. At his forty-third birthday party he announced that he would stand up and make a toast at his fiftieth.
This vision propelled him across the globe, making countless speeches and pleads for money for spinal cord research. He was dedicated to finding a cure. Unfortunately, this vision did not come to fruition, and he did not stand to toast his friends on any birthday following the accident. Sadder was his death, at the age of 52, of a heart attack. His memory and his vision, however, still guide his foundation to find a cure in the future.
In his book The Power of Purpose, Dick Leider interviewed hundreds of people in their seventies and eighties. He asked them two simple questions: “If you could live your life over again, what would you change?” and “What is the wisdom that you would pass on?”
One of the most frequent answers given was that they would have had a better vision for their life’s direction and that this vision would have made a difference.
Those answers from our elders send a clear-cut message: Find a vision for your life that has meaning. According to the ancient philosopher Seneca, “When a man does not know what harbor he is sailing for, no wind is the right wind.” Zig Ziglar, a present-day motivational guru, has noted that the happiest people he knows are those who are working toward a vision, whereas the most bored and miserable people are drifting along with no worthwhile objectives in mind. They sail with any wind.
The issue with vision is twofold. First, many people do not know their true vision, and second, their career choices are not in line with their true vision. Becoming aware of your true vision and having that vision aligned with your career may be the most difficult task a person can accomplish, but it is essential. The following drills will help.

DON’T WAIT FOR YOUR MORTALITY SANDWICH

Deborah Winger called it “a mortality sandwich.” When she was young, she had planned to be a researcher for criminal investigations. As Winger describes it, she wanted to be an investigator just like in the show CSI. Then she had a terrible but fortuitous, and almost too close of an encounter with a truck. It was this crash that gave her a clear look at her mortality. This event inspired her to change direction and follow her true vision—to be an actress. And as we know, she has had an incredible career, starring in such mega-hits as An Officer and a Gentleman, Urban Cowboy, and Terms of Endearment.
Don’t wait for your mortality sandwich. Eat life up!

ALIGNING YOUR CAREER WITH YOUR VISION

Finding a better direction was easy for John Sculley. When Steve Jobs was looking for a man to hold the helm and steer his new company, Apple Computer, he approached Sculley. At the time, Sculley was president of Pepsico and was having a wonderful career. However, when Steve Jobs approached him and asked him if he wanted to make sugar water all his life or help change the world, the choice was easy for Sculley. He wanted to make a meaningful difference, so he left and joined Apple so that he could help change the world.
Are you struggling to align your career with your vision? The first step is to create a purpose statement. A purpose statement is a vision about what we believe will give meaning to our life.
Here are a few questions to guide you in developing an effective purpose statement.
• Who do you admire and why?
• What have been some of the greatest contributions to our world?
• What do you see as meaningful?
• What significant contributions would you like to make to the world?
The next step is to list your values. Martin Luther King Jr. once stated, “I do not want to have the finer things in life. All I want to leave behind is a committed life. King valued a committed life, a life dedicated to changing human rights.
What do you value most? These may include money, civil rights, creating a useful product, helping the homeless, or other values such as creating a better world or a better environment for our children. List 10 of your key values.
Now here is the kicker. Pick two or three careers (or different jobs within your current career path) that you think are in line with your true vision. Write a persuasive paragraph for each career, as if you were writing to a friend, and tell this friend how your purpose statement and values are aligned with this particular career.
The paragraphs that are difficult to write, that is, the careers that had to be bent and pushed to fit into your statement and values, are probably not a good choice. This career choice is out of sync with your true vision. On the other hand, the paragraph that was the easiest to write, the one that was the best fit for your purpose and values, will be the correct choice and a step toward following your vision.
Henry David Thoreau once stated, “In the long run, men hit only what they aim at.” I would add “We need to know where to aim.” This chapter will point you in the right direction.

CHAPTER THREE
Race into the Strength Zone
Miguel Cervantes once wrote that the man who is prepared has his battle half fought. Individuals who develop a plan are destined to be prepared for what lies ahead. More important, when the plan incorporates our strengths, we are preparing for our success. When Lance Armstrong developed a plan that involved using his strengths, he laid the foundation for his destiny as the greatest cyclist the world has ever seen.