Introduction
“Pain is something to master, not wallow in.”
Anais Nin
What is a F**k Boy?
Before we begin discussing how to be f**k boy free, it’s important to discuss what a f**k boy is. A f**k Boy is a man who may have one or more of the following qualities at his core:
You may think of other qualities that belong on this list when you reflect on the men you have dated in the past. This list is not exhaustive but provides a general list of f**k boy qualities. It is important to distinguish between a man who is inherently good but is prone to make mistakes (like us), and a f**k boy who ultimately brings more pain than joy to our lives. It is also important to clarify that cheating, or abuse of any sort is not a “mistake”; it may lend to the determination that a man is indeed a f**k boy. This book is not male bashing or a reason to denigrate men. It is important to understand that f**k boys have their own journey to travel and their own karma to grapple with. Just as they choose to be who they are and behave a certain way, women must decide if they will entertain f**k boys. This is not to excuse f**k boy behavior, but to transcend it. The greatest change in our lives will always occur when the focus is inward rather than outward. It is always easier to change ourselves than it is to change others. Now that we have defined what a f**k boy is, let’s get to the discussion on how to be f**k boy free!
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“When you learn to love yourself, your taste in men will change”
Unknown
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Epilogue
“I am blooming from the wound where I once bled”
Rune Lazuli
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Table of Contents
Introduction
What is a F**k Boy?
Epilogue
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“I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me this has always been enough”
Nicholas Sparks
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This book is dedicated to my kindred spirit;
the man who loves me while I continually learn
to love myself more.
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Chapter 1
Release Your Ex
“Whatever life takes from you, let it go”
Don Miguel Ruiz